Why Emotional Eating Isn’t About Hunger

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Eating is as essential to living as breathing oxygen or seeking shelter. Every person needs nourishment through food, yet for many people, food is tied to unwanted and overwhelming emotions.

Emotional eating may be a greater problem than most people would first assume. The American Psychological Association found that 27% of adults eat as a way to manage stress and overwhelming emotions.

How is “emotional eating” defined?

Emotional eating is traditionally defined as “eating, often excessively, as a response to stress, boredom, unhappiness, or another emotional condition, rather than as a response to physical hunger.”

A person suffering from poor mental health may see food as a way to soothe unwanted feelings. You may have seen emotional eating manifest as a person going through a whole container of ice cream after a breakup, or downing energy drinks while cramming for an exam. In these cases, it is suggested that the person’s emotions, rather than their hunger cues, drove them to consume.

In essence, emotional eating suggests that food is used for comfort, instead of nourishment. A person may feel a certain emotional emptiness that only food can satisfy, which is not the same as the emptiness felt in a stomach that hasn’t been fed.

Physical hunger vs. emotional hunger

Understanding the ways emotional hunger is distinguishable from physical hunger can help us better understand emotional eating. The next time you feel voraciously hungry, look for signals that the desire may be rooted in emotion rather than true physical need.

Distinguishable characteristics between the two forms include:

The characteristics of physical hunger The characteristics of emotional hunger
Gradual. Over time, an unsatiated physical hunger will create steadily increasing urges to eat. Sudden. At one moment, you aren’t considering eating, but then you’re quickly sure that you’re starving.
Wants any food. While you may have many food preferences, physical hunger won’t specifically desire one type of food. Is specific: A craving is tied to one type of food that you deem as “special,” like chocolate, pasta, or cheese.
Based in the stomach: Physical hunger will manifest as noises and feelings in your gut, like groaning, rumbling and even physical pain if left unsatiated. May be felt “above the neck”: If a food craving stems from emotion, it is in the mouth and the mind. The urge to eat is more for the taste than a deeper nourishment.
Will cease when you’re full: After eating, the physical sensation of hunger will dissipate. Satisfying physical hunger solves the discomfort. Is unremitting: Emotional overeating is grounded in covering up unaddressed feelings. Even when the stomach is full, urges to eat will continue.
Recognises eating as life-sustaining: When hunger stems from physical need, there are no connections to guilt and shame around food. Ties itself to feelings of guilt: An emotional eater can easily become highly self-critical after eating.

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Is emotional eating the same as binge eating?

Though they may share some commonalities, emotional eating is not synonymous with binge eating. They overlap in some areas, so it is helpful to outline some key differences.

Binge eating is an eating disorder classified in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5). A person with a binge eating disorder eats a larger-than-normal portion of food in a relatively short time, usually less than two hours. Binge eating disorder can cause a person to fast sporadically or engage in extreme, repetitive dieting.

Emotional eating on the other hand is not considered a classifiable eating disorder. The Journal of Eating Disorders states that emotional eating is nonpathological, meaning it is not related to disease processes. Emotional eating may also be considered as one symptom or a risk factor that contributes to a binge eating disorder.

What are the causes and triggers of emotional eating?

A specific list of causes and contributors of emotional eating may be inexhaustive. However, some of the most common external contributors to emotional eating include:

  • Unmanaged emotions: If you have troubling thoughts and emotions that stem from other aspects of your life, such as your health, finances or relationships, then you may be turning to food as an escape from those feelings.
  • Restrictive dieting: People who are too vigorous and rigid in their diet may be more likely to connect emotions with food. You may tell yourself you cannot have a certain type of food because it’s not part of a current diet that fits into desired goals. Without a nutritionist’s guidance, it’s easy to make errors on which foods are good and which are bad for you.
  • Unattainable self-body imaging: Many people who struggle with body dysmorphic disorder suffer from feelings of shame and guilt when they eat a certain food. This destructive condition can dangerously mislead a person into aiming for a goal that is impossible to achieve.

How can I work on overcoming emotional eating?

If you struggle with emotional eating, try these steps to understand better how your emotions relate to food and to regain control:

Know your eating patterns
It may benefit you to write down everything you eat during the day in a food diary. Try tracking the times and places you eat, then look for patterns. As an example, you may find that you choose a specific food on the lunch break of a recurring workday. Look for patterns to show whether this choice is emotionally connected to a routinely stressful period.
Nutrition therapy
If you’re struggling to separate the food you eat from emotional triggers, a nutritional therapist can be a fantastic person to talk with. Nutritional therapy involves working with a trained professional to look at health-related symptoms and determine if any deficiencies in certain vitamins and minerals cause your feelings toward food.
Build a support network
You may be more likely to give in to emotional eating if you don’t have a support network. Open up to family, friends and loved ones about your worries, or consider joining a support group that can help you recognise irrational emotional attachments to food.
Work on new, fulfilling hobbies
For an emotional eater, food may symbolise one way to escape negative emotions. There may be unexplored hobbies and activities that can help satisfy emotional eating. When the urge to eat something as an emotional response arises, make efforts to replace it with a walk, playing with a pet, listening to music, or reading.
Give yourself grace
In difficult times, you may fall back into emotional eating to feel better. In such times, make sure you don’t judge yourself too harshly. Try to reframe negative thoughts and statements into more positive questions, such as “Was the overriding emotion sadness, or stress?” and “What could you do differently next time?” Be kind to yourself and remember that a slip is not a failure.

Where can I find support for emotional eating and addiction?

If you’re caught in the cycle of eating as a way to manage emotions, escape may feel unattainable. If you or a loved one are struggling with food-related coping mechanisms or other addictions, reaching out for support is the first step toward healing.

At Banbury Lodge, we offer comprehensive eating disorder treatment programmes to help you address emotional eating. Our personalised detox programmes help ease triggers and develop healthy coping mechanisms. Ongoing aftercare supports and maintains long-term well-being and prevents relapse.

You don’t have to navigate a difficult journey alone. Contact us today and take the first step toward regaining control and living life on your own terms.

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